Parentally Abducted Kids Adjust Quickly to New Home

I’ve been watching some of the first videos of Sean Goldman spending time with his new family in the United States with his natural father David Goldman and his family in the United States including grandparents and cousins. On the Today Show this morning, they showed footage of Sean Goldman playing basketball in a Orlando Hotel room with his family. What we see  is what the majority of the Recovering Parents in the Family Abduction Community already know, parentally abducted children are resilient and adjust very quickly to their new home.

In the last several decades, we have followed many family abduction cases some as long as Sean Goldman. In most of these cases, most recovering parents report that in a few days to weeks, it as if the children were never gone. These parentally abducted children adjust very quickly in their new homes as they work toward merging the new life with the memories and experiences of their old life. It’s critical that the recovering and abducting parent families realize this and do everything possible to support the child. We know that David Goldman by his previous and current actions is going to everything possible in this regard.

Meanwhile on Brazilian Television, we see the grandmother and the step father holding a press conference saying that in their words, Sean told them that he wanted to stay in Brazil. Joao Paulo Lins e Silva is a family law attorney in Brazil and is certainly aware of the term “parental alienation syndrome”. Of course any 9 year old child under these circumstances would say he wanted to stay in his parentally kidnapped household. Again, shame on Joao Paulo, what he should be doing is coaching the child’s grandmother how saying that is really a form of parental alienation since it is clearly wrong for the grandmother to say this is what I heard the child say. What parentally kidnapped or children from divorced parents are really saying is that I want a relationship with both of my families. What the grandmother really should be saying is that I love Sean and will be doing everything to support Sean in his new home. What I can’t understand is where is Sergio Tostes and why isn’t he giving this advice to his clients?

I’ve also heard most of the media interview their own child psychiatrists about the reunification. Most of these psychiatrists or psychologists are not familiar with this issue of family abduction. What I would like to see is the media interview some of the leading psychologists and psychiatrists in the country that have direct knowledge.

Again, the focus on this case should now be on supporting the reunification of this father and son. Eventually, we would like to see both the Brazilian step father and maternal grandmother “Parent-Up”!


One Response to Parentally Abducted Kids Adjust Quickly to New Home

  1. GOOD DAD says:

    The following injustice is happening right now, in Montgomery County, Texas, under our laws and in our courts.

    I was recently massacred in a 3 1/2+ year custody battle for my 6 year old daughter.
    Judge Suzanne Stovall

    Convicted child molesters have more access to their children than I do.
    I am completely alienated from my 6 year old daughter.
    All calls and letters are intercepted, and I have no visitation.
    The mother completely alienated her older children from their father for 15 1/2 years in the same way.
    Judge Stovall punished me with 20% +$100 monthly child support.
    She inconsistently ruled on motions, laws, or rules to favor the mother.
    My lawyers repeatedly complained that she favored the mother.
    For 3 years, I pleaded for a trial or in some way, to present a case.
    Despite 3 years of hearings, Rule 11’s, hundreds of emails, letters, and conversations, Judge Stovall refused to compel the mother to provide discovery, yet granted the mother 4 trial continuances; twice on the grounds that her discovery was incomplete; one of which was a preferentially set trial.
    The mother and lawyers knew how devastating her discovery would be, but Judge Stovall refused to compel production.
    She disregarded over 3 years and over 300, exhibited, provable charges of Contempt of Court against the mother.
    I paid the jury fee and insisted on a trial, which never came.
    When I received a copy of the Final Decree, it was significantly different, even opposite, to what had been read into the record.
    I refused to sign and adamantly insisted on a trial but Judge Stovall signed the settlement that she knew would totally alienate me from my daughter.
    Perjury, forged letters, falsified evidence, unsupported, inconsistent, and unchallenged false accusationns, by the mother, CPS, et al., outweighed exhaustive undisputed facts, certified evidence, sworn statements, and objective/testable/verifiable documentation disproving the accusations and proving neglect and abuse by the mother.
    For years, the mother has secreted our daughter to doctors, and medically mistreated her.
    For at least 15 months, the mother yo-yoed my daughter on steroids.
    But when pediatricians and specialists examined, x-rayed, diagnosed, and ordered treatment for my daughter, for a real and progressing condition, the mother refused to comply.
    The opposite diagnosis and falsified evidence of an undereducated CPS investigator, prevailed over the professionals, with Judge Stovall.
    Even with the mother’s sworn statements of medically abusing/neglecting my daughter and with the doctors corroborating records of her mistreatment, Judge Stovall took my daughter from me and placed her into her mother’s sole custody.
    The mother continues to deliberately, medically mistreat my daughter, neglects her dental care, and the high risk lifestyles exposes my daughter to diseases.
    Depositions, CISD records, Sworn statements, and other Certified and Certifiable evidence revealed a home with an AGGRAVATED SEXUAL ASSAULT FELON, wrist CUTTING, daily VIOLENCE, runaway teen, destruction, criminals, drug abuse (METH, COCAINE, XANAX, OXYCOTIN, etc), frequent police visits and a SEARCH WARRANT confiscated drug paraphernalia, multiple sex partners, multiple suspensions for drugs and violence, burglary, vandalism, shootings, disease, fighting, screaming, profanity, pornography (including BEASTIALITY), boys and men sleeping over, taking my daughter to sleep at men’s homes, and so much more.
    My daughter is taught obscene language and gestures.
    The mother provided SEXUALLY VIOLENT material and entertainment to her criminal teen children since they were young.
    The well paid mother has lived rent and utilities free for 3 ½ years but is deep in debt from undisclosed medical bills.
    My fees and expenses have exceeded $200,000.

    I can provide:
    the CPS investigation reports of violence, drug abuse and more
    the psychological evaluations including lying, abuse, etc
    depositions of lying, violence, drug abuse, sex, etc
    CISD records of violence, drug abuse, sex, etc
    police reports of violence, drug abuse, criminals, etc
    myspace entries of violence, drug abuse, sex, etc
    emails to the
    ad litem

    I have recorded nearly every contact with the mother, CPS, and many others.

    I will never, ever, ever give up trying to rescue my daughter.

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